An Introvert’s Perspective on Missing Out
“Learn to enjoy being with yourself. ”
– Shana Lee Gibson
Protect your peace.
Sitting here, I reflect on how many quiet moments I plan to embrace this holiday season. I tend to be somewhat of a recluse, and my loved ones know to find me—halfway through a gathering—in a cozy book nook or an empty room.
It doesn't take long before everyone begins to flock to me like birds, and suddenly, I'm face-to-face with reality.
We're all here to catch up, and it's been at least a few months—longer for some of us.
Should I look for an escape plan, or should I settle in and engage in conversation?
By night's end we’ve exchanged hugs and promised to reunite the following year.
In those moments, I realized how much I’ve genuinely enjoyed the company despite my initial reservations.
Take time for solitude during the holiday season.
However, I’d rather skip work parties or social gatherings with karaoke machines, entertainment, and an itinerary.
I’m happiest at home, learning about the universe, gazing at the stars, and meditating.
As a classic introvert, I’ve learned to limit social events to protect my peace.
Once alone, it can be tempting to scroll online, so I tidy up to create a cozy corner for tea and reading—no phones allowed!
Reading boosts imagination and creativity, and I’m fortunate that studies suggest spending 30 minutes immersed in a book improves focus instead of causing distraction.
I’m training my brain, rewiring it for better concentration when I return to my daily routine in January.
Being an introvert during the holidays has its perks: deep conversations, exciting book discoveries, and new insights into the meaning of life.
“Don’t let time slip from your hands. Educate yourself, train yourself, and most of all, have fun with yourself.”
―Renuka Gavrani
In appreciation for your being here,
Shana Lee